Ya'll Please

Thankfully we are becoming more aware and accepting of the diverse orientation and identity possible in human sexual expression. Which is why it is so surprising to me to be so often referred to collectively as “guys”. Even if all the persons in the group are female or at least present publicly that way. I have become more sensitive to this erroneous expression after noting its use 10- 15 times in a day out in public venues. Those using this term are of all ages but more prevalent in younger speakers. It is usually obvious that people are using the term unconsciously, habitually and without malice but think about it: Are we all “guys”? Do we have to perpetuate exclusionary language? I know that in the past I have, but I try to do better when I know better. The American Heritage Dictionary definition of guy: 1. N. a rope, cord, or cable used to steady, guide, or secure something. 2. N. Informal A man; a fellow. 3. guys N. Informal Persons of either sex. The next two definitions refer to British usage. While still very common, it should now be seen as exclusive rather than inclusive. Language is dynamic and rightly so to reflect a new perspective in usage and social acceptance. Much the same way slang words have always morphed in meaning. Calling them by their name if you know it, is always effective but sometimes not recommended if the person you are speaking to is seeking anonymity. Let's become accustomed to the many alternatives to a word that excludes half the population. I can offer folks, you all, you two, three, or four. All y’all, ladies and gents, kind people, my friends, loyal customers and yes even “guys and gals” if it is appropriate.